Monthly Archives: September 2012

MY PUBLICATIONS

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MY PUBLICATIONS

Publication Division: Islamic Productions Bachpora Srinagar Kashmir  India  (estd. 1976)

01)   Mujaza Muhammadi ka Lafani Tasalsul-(Urdu)-“The Perpetual miracle of Prophet Muhammad (PBH)”-published in 1976.

02)   Fazilat ki Raten- (Urdu)-1986- “The sacred nights”-published in 1986.

03)   Hurmat ke Miheeney-(Urdu)-“The sacred months”

04)   Kashmir ke chand Buzarg Aalim wa Sofi-(Urdu)- “A few Great Scholars and Sofi Saints of Kashmir”- Published in 1985.

05)   Janoobi Hind mein Islam ki Ibtida-(Urdu)-“Introduction of Islam in South India”- published in 1985.

06)   Baba Bam-ud-Din-a brief biography-(Urdu)- published in 1988.

07)   Let the World know-(English)-published in 1980

08)   Srinagar the Sun-city-What it should be (English)-published in 1989

09)   The Truth- (English)-First edition published in 1995

10)   Moomin Kamil ke awsaf-(Urdu)

11)   Bismillah-i-Rahman ki tafsir (Urdu)-published in 1986.

12)   Margoob-ul-Qaloob –authored by Maulana Rumi-translated from Persian to Urdu-“The attraction of hearts”-published in 1997.

13)   Khwaja Habibullah Attar (RA)-a brief biography-(Urdu)- published in 1997.

14)   Hamare Aslaaf aur Mashaikh-i-Kashmir-3 volumes-(Urdu)-“Our Ancestors and Saints of Kashmir”-published in 2007.

15)   Our Concern-(English)- published in 2003

16)   My Story-(English)-published in 2011.

17)   Jhelum Valley Civilization-(English)-under process.

18)   Our Ancestors-(English)-under process.

19)   The Truth-(English)-second edition 2012-under process

Building a sustainable framework for the Middle East compared to J&K State

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The Institution of Engineers (India), Jammu & Kashmir State Centre Srinagar

                         45th Engineers’ Day, September 15, 2012.

                Building a sustainable framework for the Middle East

                                          Compared to J&K State

                                                             By

                  Er. Mohammad Ashraf Fazili FIE (Retd. Chief Engineer)

 

Addressing Climate Change calls for a broad spectrum of policy responses and strategies at different levels. Globally, two fundamental response strategies of mitigation and adaptations visualized in the UN Framework Conservation Climatic Change (UNFCCC) represent the core of global efforts. At the national level, the Government of India has carried it forward in through the National Action Plan on Climate Change in 2008. Its eight National Missions provide a multi-pronged and integrated framework for addressing climate change. Enhanced actions in the area of mitigation and adaptation require enhanced cooperation among all countries for the development and transfer of environmentally-sound technologies along with their deployment, adoption and diffusion. India’s stand, in this context, is guided by the principle of “common but differentiated responsibility” and by the Bali Action Plan (BAP) and the Cancun decisions for international action. The BAP mandates the development of effective international mechanisms that can scale up the development and transfer of technology to developing countries as well as deployment and diffusion of affordable environmental technologies, and cooperation on research and development (R&D).

In Conclusion, efforts to move towards a low carbon climate resilience future path are critically dependent, for their success, on the availability and use of the climate technologies across all countries and sectors. There is an urgent need for concerted and collaborative efforts to develop and provide increased access to technology for mitigation and adaptation at all levels – global, regional and national – enabled by capacity-building and provision of new and additional funding to meet the costs of integration of climate change considerations into the development process and stand-alone activities. While the Technology Mechanism envisages enhanced actions for cooperation in this regard, there exist several issues and questions. Implications of technology cooperation need to be examined at the international, regional and national levels.

I had an opportunity to attend the Infrastructure ARABIA Summit conference alongside WORLD ecoConstruct, 22-25 April 2012 Abu Dhabi National Exhibition Centre (ADNEC). Extracts are presented here for awareness of the audience:

Among other seminars, there was presented a White Paper examining the opportunities and challenges facing the infrastructure industry in the Middle East in the wake of economic and political turmoil. (In certain issues parallels can be drawn as highlighted in bold letters with   conditions in J&K State, which need our urgent attention.)

Infrastructure projects worth billions of dollars have featured high on the agenda of most countries in the region, in spite of the turmoil that swept across the Middle East in the past year.

The total value of infrastructure projects stands  at US$ 408.8 billion. While many industry experts now point to Saudi Arabia and Qatar as the two GCC states offering the most opportunity in infrastructure and construction at wide, the UAE still holds the lion’s share of infrastructure projects.  Accounting  for US$ 187.2 billion. Abu Dhabi alone has earmarked US$ 15 billion on expansion of infrastructure projects between 2009 and 2012. (In J&K State funds are earmarked in the Annual plan for various development works, which include infrastructure development in public sector.)

The White Paper has been drafted based upon a round table discussion held by Matthew Plumbridge, Consultant, Environment and Sustainability Planning, Department of Municipal Affairs (DMA), Abu Dhabi; Ivan Woods, Head of Project Finance Advisory, BDO Corporate Finance (Middle East) LLP and Dr. Ghassan Ziadat, Director of Infrastructure (UAE) and Regional Head of Bridges, Middle East and India, Atkins. The moderator was Meelanie Mingas, Head of Editorial, The Big Project. The discussion was organized by Informa Exhibitions.

THE IMPACT OF POLITICAL AND ECONOMIC TURMOIL

The Middle East region experienced a wave of political turmoil, when the world was starting to recover and regroup in the wake of the global economic crises, which contributed to the challenges being faced across all industries. The construction industry on the whole continues to deal with delays, projects on hold or shelved, while the tender process becomes more rigorous and stringent.

Social Infrastructure

In light of the Arab spring and the seismic shift in global finance opportunities, governments in the region are placing more emphasis on social infrastructure in order to create sustainable communities, job opportunities and comfortable living.

According to Ghassan Ziadat, “the UAE government has responded to make sure social infrastructure was adequate for the population, and the people are satisfied with the level of education and healthcare they receive.

“Social infrastructure has been less well served (in recent years) than the big power and water projects.” ( J&K State has witnessed a haphazard growth of social infrastructure development in violation of Master Plans, particularly in Srinagar and violations are reported in media, the recent ones being the skewed bridge on river Jhelum passing near Convent gate and the flyover from Jahangir Chowk to Rambagh bridge.)

Sustainable workforces

Yet, a result of political turmoil is the talent gap. While the UAE remains relatively unscathed by the Arab Spring, many skilled expatriate workers have left the region, specially Libya, Bahrain and Egypt, which once again draws a spotlight on the region’s reliance on international, skilled workers employed in order to full fill project’s needs. (Most of the workforce in Srinagar city consists of migrant labourers from Bihar and local labour seems to be diminishing.)

City versus rural living

The ratio of people living in cities to those living in rural areas is approximately 4 to 1. According to Dr. Ziadat. “It is a misconception that in the Middle East, people are still living basic lifestyles in rural areas. Across the region, actually about 80% of the population lives in cities and this itself creates challenges

 ( Reverse is the case in J&K State, where 80% population lives in rural areas and the trend to shift to the urban areas is on the increase.)

“If you plan infrastructure to create new jobs, you may be solving one problem and creating another in Abu Dhabi, and across the region, there is significant migration from the rural areas to the cities which puts pressure on the built environment of that city. By leaving the rural areas, we deprive them of the working population and its sustainability in the long term.” (This holds true in case of J&K State too. Most of the new generation is reluctant to attend to ancestral agricultural jobs and are on hunt for alternative office works.)

There needs to be investment, not just in the urban population centres but in the rural areas too in order to stem the migration and relieve the pressure on the cities. To achieve that, you need a whole gamut of different measures. (In J&K State too we need to create facilities in rural areas like those of the urban areas in order to check migration from rural areas, putting pressure on the existing urban facilities designed for the existing urban population only.)

“People don’t mind living in rural areas such as the Western Region of Abu Dhabi, as long as they have the necessary high quality social infrastructure provided- healthcare, housing, jobs and education (This shall equally be true for J&K State as rural areas provide attractive natural habitat.)

“In addition they must be well-connected with the rest of the country. If they decide to go to the city it should only take them an hour or two in comfortable transport.(So is the case of J&K State, which warrants construction of good quality roads of standard design.)

One of the biggest changes witnessed at the turn of the decade, in light of the economic downturn has been a shift to a more managed economy. Dr. Ziadat explained, “Two or three years ago, the market was driving things, particularly in the private sector with the property market boom. There was a lot of construction going on to service the private sector and the private investor which created a lot of jobs and economic growth. With the global financial situation, this has been slowed down significantly and so the governments are dealing with the fact that the private sector has slowed down. It would help solve the age old problem of unemployment of the younger generation. (Unfortunately the private sector has not grown much in J&K State except construction of a few individual houses, and some shopping malls here and there. The development of private sector could generate lot of jobs, which could solve the longstanding problem of unemployment in new generation. The recent news of plans to privatise the R&B Sector is a welcome step in this direction.)

“Many countries in the region… are trying to steer the economy into growth, create jobs by investing in infrastructure, which is a good thing for the industry but the type of construction has now changed quite dramatically in the last few years with more emphasis on wider infrastructure than the high-end property type construction.”  (The high rise buildings are already restricted in J&K State in order not to obstruct mountain-view and also because of the area being a seismic zone with low bearing capacity of the soil. Hence the lateral development has been recommended. Ultimately we may have to resort to vertical development of the city on reaching a point of saturation with increase in population and restricted availability of land.)

Woods agreed, and stated ”The shift can only be a good one for the foreseeable future-the property bubble was clearly unsustainable, and in the short term governments are surely right to steer their economies to more sustainable sectors.” (In case of J&K State the power and tourism sector would be the sustainable sectors.)

Today’s Middle East landscape:

Dr. Ziadat and Plumbridge use examples outside of the Middle East from which the region can learn when dealing with economically and politically challenging times. Now is the time, they believe, for governments in the region to spend and intervene to keep the ‘bicycle’ moving, from both an economic and psychological point of view.

Public Spending Injections

Dr. Ziadat identifies the Far East-citing countries such as Singapore, Malaysia and Hong Kong-which take advantage of slow cycle in construction. He said, “when the economy is booming and the private sector is healthy and strong, (the governments) slow down on public expenditure to prevent the economy from overheating.

“But when the economy slows down, they want to prevent the economy from shrinking, so they invest by spending into infrastructure. They got much better value for their money in upgrading the infrastructure when the market prices are more competitive, they invest in the economy and the public spending on infrastructure maintains job creation and keeps things going.”

Plumberige said, ”This has been the case historically. The Hoover Dam helped America out of the Great Depression and today we see Obama’s government look at infrastructure projects as critical to economic recovery. Drawing a similarity:  {History is witness to the event, when people of Kashmir were struck by famines and in order to provide livelihood, The Moghul King Akbar engaged common people of the valley in building a huge wall of stone masonry around the Hari Parbhat/ Kohi Maran hillock on food for work basis.Besides the rural development programmes are providing working mandays to rural poor even at present, but urban poor need yet to be considered for equal opportunities.)

In Australia, during the down times, contractors will tender on low margins, but they make their money in between payments, that they receive and then they pay to the sub-contractors. So they invest in the short-term money market and the little amount they eke out keeps them afloat.” (Such practice already exists in J&K State particularly in rural areas, where the rates of works are comparatively much lower in rural development works , with the locally available materials and workmanship.)

Woods also says that, “Governments often see infrastructure spending as a good way to help an economy out of a downswing.

“While this should still involve the private sector as much as possible, countries across the globe are increasing public investment on needed infrastructure-even with the austerity measures many are enforcing-to boost employment and give a long-term stimulus to their economies.” (So is the case with J&K State. Construction of roads, railways, drainage etc, is made possible only with public investment with however little private sector involvement.)

Regulation Codes

With sustainability now on every business and government agendas, cynics question the viability of implementation. Plumbridge points to the energy code currently being phased into the industry in Abu Dhabi as the “best in class”. He said,”We will hit the UN Green Building targets for ‘extremely hot climates’. If the UN gives you achieve that. You’re doing pretty well as a minimum standard.”

Dr Ziadat believes achieving the water balance in the sustainable design phase is an important factor.  “If you look at the overall picture in terms of carbon emissions on the sustainability agenda,  the majority are water, electricity and energy related. Cutting down the demand for water, electricity, heating, cooling and making optimal use of water recycling is vital to achieving the carbon emission targets set in Copenhagen.”

“Each country and geography has been set targets and they have signed up to achieving those targets by 2020. In terms of annual carbon emissions per capita, the USA is one of the largest at about 30 carbon tonnes per year per person, which is similar to the UAE’s carbon emissions.”

“Everyone in the world realizes something needs to be done about it. The UAE is committed to driving down carbon emissions and introducing sustainability initiatives such as Estidama and model city in MASDAR. The Estidama program  goes a long way towards setting a benchmark to encouraging people to design sustainable buildings and communities.”Plumberidge reiterated that Estidama is a rating system under which a robust set of regulations is needed.

Understanding the codes and the way they are applied to your region is vital, says Dr. Ziadat, in being able to create designs at tender which can stand up against the sustainable agenda and save money. “You could, with good design, save about 20 per cent of construction materials in a project.

{ During the question hour in one of the seminars, I asked,”What methods were adopted to ensure implementation of codes of practice and if the testing laboratories are licensed, which is necessary for ensuring the safety of the structures?”  The reply was that tests were being conducted; besides implementation of the proper design was ensured by timely inspection by the authorities. In addition the testing facilities are being centralized under one roof, for which a central laboratory has been proposed to be constructed. In fact I found that the construction of a ten story block in our vicinity in Abu Dhabi was stalled by the Municipal authorities due to use of lesser than the designed  reinforcement in the foundation. However in J&K State It is a matter of great concern that in spite of the fact that the area falls under seismic zone, there is hardly such a check being conducted by the authorities. Besides the laboratories conducting the tests are hardly licensed from the Bureau of Indian Standards (BIS), putting the  lives of the people in great danger without proper verification of the safety of the structures, which are mostly made of reinforced cement concrete as against the timber structures of the earlier days.}

“Integrating the design and construction through the Design and Build collaborative approach can also be a catalyst to innovate and produce more buildable and cost-effective infrastructure.”

“I think the market here is still fairly conservative and people have been traditionally suspicious of the construction industry. I think it’s reached the stage now where it needs a re-look. The quality of construction on some projects in the UAE now is absolutely world class and this is a good reflection on the capability and professionalism of the developers, consultants and contractors in the region.” (We have yet to see a world class construction to come up in J&K State, besides there is lot of wastage of materials in over safe designs, that have no counter check at departmental level.In addition the effective quality control too is missing in absence of BIS licenced laboratories monitored by skilled personal with men of integrity.)

Plumbridge points to the Burj Khalifa as a ‘feat in engineering’ and believes the UAE must play to its strengths-the speed and rate of construction while moving towards more modern methods of construction such as modular, pre-fabrication, pre-casting and using prototypes more often in order to increase worker health and safety and reduce waste.

Urban Planning

Today, the focus in Abu Dhabi is to create a cohesive city where people can comfortably live, work and raise families; addressing the fact that living in an extremely hot climate plays an important role in achieving that.

One of the aims of the landscape strategy currently being compiled by the DMA is to create continuous pedestrian and cycling networks throughout the UAE capital but when the sun’s influence affects your daily movements this is especially challenging. Plumbridge believes we can learn from ancient cities in Morocco and Egypt in which passive breezes are maintained and the overall objective is to keep the sun off everything. “Urban planning (in this region) is driven by sun and breeze,” he said{ In J&K  State in our city of Srinagar, not to talk of cycling network, even pedestrian foot paths are occupied by vendors to the  great inconvenience of the pedestrians. Being a tourist destination, we need to provide proper pedestrian and cycling networks in the city and ensure and even enforce their use without any hindrance.}

This form of natural cooling is essential according to Dr. Ziadat. “For cities to be more sustainable it makes sense for the buildings to be closer together and in a dense environment so people can walk from one tower to another. This dense environment is going to be the future across the globe for city planning.” {The old city of Srinagar contained houses huddled together, with narrow lanes, which proved favourable in severe winters as heat loss was minimized and very few homes needed hamams as against the new trend of construction  where hamams or central heating is needed in isolated houses in the newly developing residential areas. Even in hot summers these narrow lanes served to be the sources of passive breezes which is absent in open areas and the rooms located on south and west sides are too hot.}

Woods is also encouraged that “new developments such as Masdar have integrated traditional techniques from the region (such as use of shading and wind) with modern technology” and believes that such sustainable planning models will only become more important going forward in the region.

And cultural and leisure infrastructure is also important to recognize. “Once the infrastructure is there, where basic needs are met, people don’t want  to be bored spending all their free time at home; they want to be outside and they want to live in cities that are exciting and interesting.

“The Government is investing in culture, such as museums, water parks and attractions like Ferrari World and the value of these destinations should not be underestimated.” (There is need for providing in J&K State, recreational  parks for children  and for public stroll in all the localities where such facilities are lacking.)

It is expected that this cultural investment will help curb the transient nature of the UAE and contribute to retaining talent. Plumbridge said,”The Municipal System is looking at social responsibility, promulgating areas such as volunteerism, getting to know your neighbours etc.” (In the old city of Srinagar people were living closer sharing joys and sorrows together as compared to the new colonies, where  individual cares little for his neighbour. Now mosque is the only place, where people can meet.)

Financing mega projects

In relative terms, the UAE and other GCC states such as Saudi Arabia and Qatar are wealthy nations rich in resources and are not as dependent on foreign investment as other countries. The increase in the number of mega projects in the region, however, does shine in the spotlight on capital finance and the introduction of public private partnerships (PPPs).

The number and scale of large infrastructure projects currently being developed in the UAE, such as the Step Tunnel, MASDAR city, the new energy and power desalination stations, the nuclear programme and the number of transportation programmes from roads and railways, port and airport expansions to bus stations and depots, create financial constraints.

Dr. Ziadat believes that the region must pull together in order to survive and PPPs need to be considered, especially in less wealthy nations. “The majority of our countries in the Middle East may well need to depend on foreign direct investment and private sector investment to achieve their development programmes. The wealthy countries in the region are playing a part; they are investing and helping their neighbours, which is essential for the region’s stability, but involving the private sector and bringing in foreign direct investment is a must, it has to happen.” (Presently there seems to be no policy for the foreign investment in J&K State. It could definitely change the shape of the country/state, if foreign investment was allowed for the development of the infrastructure on the mutually agreed terms.)

Woods points to countries like Kuwait and Egypt which have successfully utilized PPPs but warns that many countries come across issues when getting these projects started, largely due to complications in developing new financial models and fully understanding the requirements of a PPP project.

He believes,”PPPs can be of great benefit, particularly to maximize the private sector’s involvement and added value. The challenges of implementing a PPP properly, however, and ensuring value for money for the government and the wider public, must be addressed upfront. In some cases projects have fallen over because initial plans weren’t well thought through-look at the Mafraq-Gweihat highway.”

Woods says that financing remains a challenge given global economic concerns, although for good projects funding should still be available and the region is generally seen as a relatively safe investment opportunity.

Transparency, says Plumbridge, is the key to attracting foreign investment and the genesis of the PPP model is to provide critical infrastructure.

The adoption of the PPP model is growing in Abu Dhabi,; Plumbridge highlights both a sewerage infrastructure project and a crushed  rock, recycled concrete aggregate facility which are being constructed in collaboration with the private sector.

Aside from financial constraints, one of the biggest challenges in delivering mega projects in the region is finding the human resources and skilled labour. “The boom time happened here (in the UAE) now it’s in Qatar and Saudi Arabia,” said Plumberidge. “If you want to do a mega project now. The resource pool has moved so you might have to bring in people who don’t necessarily know or appreciate how the UAE operates.”

Underserved areas in infrastructure

Woods believes that the region still has some way to go before the needed level of infrastructure is available. “There are significant shortfalls in a number of areas,” he said. “Affordable housing has not been made available in sufficient quantity and this has been recognized in Saudi Arabia, Bahrain and Oman.”

Given increasing demand for improved social services such as health and education, as well as needed improvements to transport links and the continuing need for clean water and power, he emphasizes, ”it’s a long list.”

And while Woods believes power projects have been developed more successfully than housing in the region, Dr Ziadat points to the energy sector as the still most important infrastructure factor in the Middle East, particularly as they relate to water projects because of the lack of natural resources. He explained, “Jordan only has water supplied to its population once a week for a few hours. It is the poorest country in terms of water in the world and it has a growing population and no financial resources to address the situation.” (We should be thankful to nature, who has provided us with water in abundance, but its exploitation for power production and as portable drinking water is much behind the target and has a great scope of investment.)

“Energy, water and environment are all related in this region: you need to desalinate the water and you can’t create energy to desalinate without affecting the environment. The UAE is very fortunate with its hydrocarbon reserves and is trying to diversify its energy supplies through the nuclear programmes and through renewable solar and wind power. If you have adequate and renewable energy supplies, the water issues can be solved.”

Plumbridge refers to Abu Dhabi’s Critical National Infrastructure Authority which is driving programmes such as aquifer storage, which will see the amount of desalinated water in storage increase from three to four days ‘worth to two months’ worth, in light of an unforeseen circumstance or natural disaster. “If you take out the water and you take out the power, you don’t last so long,” he said. (J&K State is rich in both water and power resources, but for their proper exploitation.)

Conclusion

The Middle East is facing an opportunity now, in light of global financial crisis and the Arab Spring. The pressure on the construction industry at large and specifically infrastructure professionals is different to the overwhelming urgency and speed expected in the mid-2000s. Dr. Ziadat believes now is the time to take stock, evaluate and identify how the industry can work more efficiently and provide an even better quality service to the population and environment into the future.

The private sector is so focused on short term return on investment and so now, those pressures have lessened,” he said. “The government-driven properly planned long-term programmes can look at implementation of sustainable policies taking advantage of recycling, efficiency, modular construction, how to improve in the long run and how to attract long term sustainable investments such as pension funds into infrastructure this is where you can move from being a developing country to the next step.

“Being more sustainable by design is an urgent issue which needs to be addressed but it is a journey you have to go through which cannot be simply introduced overnight.”

Railways

One key area of opportunity and growth for the Middle East is the rail industry, according to Dr. Ziadat. He believes the region is poorer off for the lack of an inter-nation railway infrastructure and that the Middle East was ‘left behind’ in the railway transportation age. He asks, can you imagine Europe without a proper rail network? (So has been the case with J&K State too. Although railway link was introduced in India in British period, it had not reached Kashmir up till now due to rugged mountainous terrain. However work on the project linking Kashmir is in progress now.)

“I think for sustainability in transportation, (rail) is the future, it is currently more sustainable than air and road travel. Railway transportation is much more sustainable in terms of carbon emissions but you need to have a long-term investment programme to achieve it and build a whole industry around it. You need to support the operation and the maintenance of it, the safety, security and the technological aspects. It would really help to connect and integrate the economies here and in the region in ways other than roads, sea and air transport.

“In Europe, inter-trade is around 60 per cent of the gross national product; in the Middle East it is far lower partly because of limitations on efficient rail transportation links. Rail has been left behind over the years because it is quicker to build roads and import cars, but as governments look for medium to long term gains, it is a good investment, it creates healthier environments and makes the economies more sustainable.”
Woods fully supports Dr. Ziadat and says,” The region would be very well served with a rail network, both economically and environmentally. This should continue to be a priority for regional governments as the benefits should substantially outweigh the costs over the long term.”

Human resources

One of the biggest challenges reiterated throughout the round table discussion was the need to retain skilled workers and reduce the amount of talent leaving the region. A direct impact of the economic downturn, many expatriate workers lost jobs and returned to their home countries or moved to other emerging markets throughout Africa and Asia. (Major chunk of workers from India including Kashmiris were affected adversely).

Dr. Ziadat believes that the implementation of GCC-wide working permits would help you curb that trend and retain skills by providing better mobility and flexibility for workers. “At times you’ll have a boon in Saudi and a quiet time to Bahrain or Qatar. Moving to a regional work system would allow the skilled workers and labour to move freely between the GCC countries and thus maintain stability and create flexibility. The cycles in different countries don’t always happen at the same time.”(We have no dearth of skilled labourers both within the J&K State and from outside. Only the opportunity needs to be created.)

“The suggestion of implementing a GCC-wide working permit could be expected because otherwise, these projects will have constraints.”

Creating a legacy

In committing to a more sustainable workforce, Plumbridge believes we take a step closer to engendering a sense of legacy in the region. He calls for professionals in infrastructure to increase their levels of pride and job satisfaction, echoing the achievements from their home nations. “Your building is your legacy and the legacy of your company and of Shaikh Zayed and his vision, and thus we have to consider the quality of our work as the core in what we do and to have pride in every nut and bolt we put in place. Be prepared to put quality and safety first because that is what you do in your home town and it shouldn’t be any different here.”

One can easily draw a comparison between the quality of construction in UAE and other countries. A few friends from USA on a visit to UAE were all praise for the newly developed cities in UAE that have precision, aesthetic design and maintenance of quality of work. Comparing the newly constructed International airport of Delhi with that of Dubai, one can easily visualise use of heavy wasteful sections in the former instead of cylindrical sections with aesthetic appeal in the later. Besides the behaviour and treatment meted by the travelling passengers in Dubai is far courteous as compared to the brute behaviour of Delhi staff which is regretful.

There are some missing elements when we compare our state of affairs with UAE. There are no street dogs, no solid waste in sight, no beggars (begging is banned), no dust inside the rooms- being all air tight with AC, no policeman or army visible, round the clock ensured electric, water and gas supply. 5-lane traffic with a maximum speed of 120 kmph, monitored by CTV cameras with instant action on violation of traffic rules; vacuum cleaners cleaning the roads in night hours. Multi-storeyed shopping malls with multi storeyed parking lots, where one can buy all necessities and where people from Europe come to buy things-it being tax free. Last 30-40 years have witnessed conversion of mud huts to high rise buildings, sky scrapers and even the world’s tallest building of 160 storeys- all due to a sincere ruler Shaikh Zayed.

TO MY LOVE

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There was recently an ad for submitting a love story in 1500 to 5000 words for competition and I submitted the following one and the results are yet to come:

 To My Love

Love is the binding force in the Universe. The gravitational pull that holds billions and trillions of stars at their proper place is a form of love. So is the solar system performing its task without any deviation. Scientists say that there are innumerable such solar systems existing all around, which may be of advanced age or younger to us. However life is yet to be discovered in the outer space.

Love has many forms. One is divine love, which supersedes all types of love and God loves his creation more than their parents and a person who dips himself in the elixir of divine love merges in to the divinity. Examples of the same are not wanting in the history of humanity. The other form of love is the parental love, which is inborn and does not expect anything in return from the loved one. This inborn love binds all creation in to a uniform bond. Then there is mutual love between brothers and sisters and cousins, which too is there because of blood relation.

Another form of love between two persons generates at first sight, when something appeals the other being and it results in to an everlasting love.

I have been the only surviving child of my parents, that too after offering many prayers by my parents and their spiritual guides, pirs and faqirs. Thus I was a precious child brought up with lot of care and love by all around. My father took great care in getting me educated under his close supervision and my mother would teach me pronunciation when I would be in her very lap. Care was taken for avoiding my mingling with neighbouring children who used to play in a rough manner and also used rough language. The only playmate I could find was a cousin sister from my mother’s side. Most of the time she would be in our home as her house was not far off and she often came to see her maternal aunt i.e. my mother who loved her utmost. I had also suckled her mother when she too was suckling her and hence she had become my milk-sister, on which my mother would often repent as she liked her so much that she wished to make her, her daughter-in-law, (a boy and a girl suckling the same mother are not allowed to marry in Islam). However we continued to grow together like a brother and a sister and that brotherly love still persists with cherished memories of the childhood even when we have come of age now.

In my childhood days, I recall that once there was a marriage function of our relative and all the relatives had gathered together. Being a small boy of hardly 4-5 years I accompanied my mother and was enjoying their chorus (Kashmiri wanwun) sung during marriage functions. There was a girl of about my age, who was singing film song, sounding like ‘Baje chum chum payal mere’ or something like that. This song of hers with her melodious voice and her dancing style made a deep impression in my mind and I liked to be friends with her but felt shy. However days went on, I would often steal a glimpse of her, whenever there was a chance of social gathering, but I gave her no indication of my interest in her. Her features were becoming more attractive with every passing year. Many a time her parents would compel me to have tea in their house, but I was too shy even to share tea. Belonging to strict religious background, direct contact of boy and girl was not approved those days. Once I tried to send an anonymous letter to her to see the reaction, but with no obvious result. Later on I came to know that she had been questioned on that. Being a bit of advanced thoughts, her parent allowed her to shun the Muslim veil and this action of her was not liked by their neighbours and relatives alike.

There was another girl elder to my age, which I used to teach some subjects for a short time. She sent me a love letter, when I was away in my professional college. I did not respond the letter as I had no interest in her. My parents also had reason to refuse the proposal. Later she got married elsewhere.

One more proposal came from a relative living in a far off village. But it was turned down on the plea that it shall be difficult for a village girl to adjust with the city life.

During the study of my professional course, the go-betweens started pouring in to my house, but the proposals were turned down by my parents. My mother was however on hunt for a bride and would personally verify each and every proposal that would come from various sides.

In fact when I had come to my home after my first year of my degree engineering course, a neighbour-cum- relative called me to meet a person in his house, who interviewed me regarding my education etc. In the same evening he sent a marriage proposal with his daughter to be sermonised within a week’s time, which was turned down by my parents as they wanted me to complete my course and get a job first. However later on I came to know through other source that I had been engaged elsewhere in my absence, when I was studying thousands of miles away from my home. There was no alternative but to send a note of congratulations to my parents telegraphically, which surprised them and they had to write in detail the circumstances that made them to agree on the proposal. The great spiritual saint Sayid Meerak Shah (RA) of Shalimar had been instrumental in choosing my photograph out of the lot and my father had turned restless to agree to the proposal from the girl’s side.

Meanwhile the engagement of the girl, I had liked in my childhood got delayed; perhaps they wanted to know about the boy who had sent her the anonymous letter, which they never came to know. Even the girl could not guess as to who it must have been. The girl got married at a late stage with a person of much senior age. I still cherish her memories and blame the destiny for not joining us together. It is also true that marriages are arranged in heaven but celebrated on earth. In our case the destiny had played its part.

It is also true as goes the Arabic saying that

’The best marriage is the one that doesn’t take place’.

I still wish her well but won’t like to tell her all about it, which would embarrass her.

Perhaps when two lovers meet, the intensity of love gets reduced as compared to the separation and to keep the fire of love burning it is worthwhile to remain thirsty of each other and that too when it is a one-sided affair. It calls for a great sacrifice as an Arabic saying goes:

Separation from the living is harder than separation from the dead.”

There were some occasions when we met and I often found some sort of inner reaction generated in me but the usual shyness overcame me. There used to be definitely an opposite reaction in her too but she tried to suppress that feeling one way or the other. I could feel minds reacting when all other sources are put on hold. This is a story of suppressed love which did not find its vent due to prevailing circumstances and shyness and may be termed as a ‘Thirsty Love’

May I quote from “Tamhidat”

“The lover’s reckoning is with Love. His life is Love. Without Love he dies… From Love he experiences so much grief, pain and sorrow that he ceases to be tied down by Union nor afflicted by the torments of separation. For Union gives him no joy,nor separation any pain or suffering. He has surrendered up his will to Love.”

The Lebanese saying may befit here,

“The man who is shy of his wife will never have children.”

Besides the following couplet translates her reaction:

‘Raqiboon se rafiq achey hain jo jal kar nam lete hain,

Gulun se khar behtar hain jo daaman tham lete hain.’

i.e. ‘Rivals are better than friends, who call our name out of heartburn, Thorns are better than flowers as these catch us by our garments.’

There is another Arabic saying- a source of consolation:

“Do not marry your lover, and do not take back the man you have divorced.”

 William Shakespeare says,

 “Love sought is good, but giv’n unsought is better.”

I would like to present her the following words if ever she comes across this story:

You are like a Beautiful flower

That beautifies the garden.

You are like a sparkling diamond

So precious is your worth.

You are like a golden sunbeam

Chasing the clouds away.

You are like the early dawn

That spreads the hope around.

You bring some precious moments

To treasure, day by day.

Again I quote William Shakespeare:

Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle’s compass come;

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But  bears it out even to the edge of doom.

I would also like to tell her that “YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO ME”:

You can get lost in the crowd,

Yet I can spot you,

Because you are important to me.

You can get lost in the surge of humanity,

But God never loses sight of you,

Because he loves you eternally.

Whatever you are,

There is no other you

And you are loved tremendously.

“I have redeemed you

And  called you by name.

You are mine.”

WITH LOVE.